Actions vs. Words

"Actions speaks louder than words," they say... Well, very true indeed. It is proven, to me, again, for the gazillionth time today. Not that I don't believe the saying, I do! It's just that sometimes I choose to ignore it, especially when it involve some negativity, because I just hate negative feelings. Negative feelings pull me down, and I don't like being pulled down. But then again, sometimes you just can't get away from it. From having that bad feelings...

I am not naive, if that's what you're thinking.. No. I am NOT. It's just that sometimes I would rather choose (or at least try) to be nice to people, and not be judgemental. I do that because I would like for people to treat me like that too. But unfortunately, more often than not, people take me as being too nice, and that I can be easily taken for granted. Now, that crosses me! Being nice doesn't mean people can take us for granted. Being nice doesn't mean we are weak. No.

I have just discovered recently, that we can never trust no one. Sometimes people are just too 'kiasu'. You take them under your wings; but be careful, for you will never know that one day they can just change and stab you from behind. I just had that experience. I still couldn't believe that it happened. After all that I have done - the guidance I gave, the knowledge I shared, the skills I showed - I found out that later I had to put my guard up because things are not going as well as I thought it would be. That I can get burned if I go on do what I do - nurturing.

As a sister, I thought I was showing the way. As a mother, I thought I was sharing the experience. As a friend, I thought I was giving the right guide. I was wrong. I mean, I did the right thing but to the wrong crowd... How did I know about this? Well, the above phrase clearly states so. Plus, I have my trusted observers.

So, again, ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THAN WORDS. Therefore, be careful. Be mindful. And on top of all, be bold... Because when things like this happen, it can cut you deep and the last thing you will want to do is fall down and crumble. You will need that BOLDNESS, all that STRENGTH you can get to get back up again and fight back!

May God bless us all... Ameen. :)